Thursday, October 16, 2014

Qualifications

Much like any job application dating should have some qualifications to help weed out some of the undesirables. Unfortunately for me my qualifications have never been written down. I think this is part of my problem, i get all love stuck and start reasoning with myself why the quality i didn't think was attractive is ok in this case.
So from here on out i will have some basic qualifications that can't be broken:

1. Must have a job, this doesn't not mean you must make a certain amount of $$ a year, i am not money driven, but i do feel you must be able to support yourself. I am very capable of taking care of myself so they are in no way, shape, or form required to do so. However with that being said it would be nice to know that is i needed some one to be there financially that they could be.
2. Family needs to be important. I don't care what your back story is or if you don't like your family. I just know my family is extremely important, so you don't like your family? Fine, but you need to not complain when i want to see mine, and preferably i would like them to like their family
3. Must like animals. Anyone who "Hates" animals is bad company and i don't surround myself with bad company.
4. And the essentials trust, honesty and loyalty. 

Now for some vanity requirements :)

5. Must be at least 5'10...preferably over 6 foot. I love to wear my heels and i need to feel like a girl still not an amazon queen so please be tall!
6. Good teeth: I know not everyone was a privileged as me to have parents who could afford to make their teeth look good, but it is a super important attribute to have someone who has nice teeth, and good hygiene is a must!
7. No neck tattoos or knuckle tattoos....this is self explanatory
8.Sexy defined jaw line!
9. Be in shape! I don't expect perfection but please take care of yourself!
10. Never date a younger guy again, 12 months exception
11.

Undatable names: Names that have been ruined by my experiences or my close friends.

Adam
Harry (Harrison)
Dutch
RJ
DJ


Sunday, October 12, 2014

Mr. Perfect = Mr. Unavailable

I think i have a crazy meter that draws all the crazy men towards me! This summer has been the biggest roller coaster of emotions i have ever felt! From the TPO on the Ex to the hot-headed Scottish Boy, and yes i do mean boy! Loved him but man i learned my lesson dating younger guys, 1 and done!

Fighting the battle with the current interest: Absolutely the most attractive man i have met in a long time! From the moment he walked into the bar i knew i had to know him! The best part was my two best friends i work with took one look at him and instantly looked at me, they knew he was right up my alley! Beautiful eyes, perfect smile and great jaw line :), besides the physical attributes he has a great heart and is laid back and easy to be around.
        But with all great things there comes a price and his flaw is he is emotionally unavailable. Few months out of a serious long term and  "not looking for a relationship". I understand that place in your life when your just not ready. I have been there and i let go the single most important guy in my life and remember the crushing feeling when i found out he was engaged. I knew i had messed up and messed up in the biggest way possible. 
   I keep trying to find more flaws to turn myself off to the idea of him and the more i try the harder i realize he is a great guy. Nothing bad to say about him! I just have to walk away from him and maybe if the right time ever syncs up we might be able to give it a chance. I just have this awesome way of attracting all the wrong guys... Can some one please steer me in the right direction?! I swear this is why i have such a black heart!